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Biblically Speaking
The Pride of Life
By Joe Graber
I was talking to a prison guard friend of mine the other day when he told
me something that I found quite interesting. He said that one of the
worst problems in the prison is the well educated prisoners being manipulated
by the less well educated. It seems that the prison guards know what the
rest of us don't...that in general the more educated a person is the more
easily manipulated. I had been tossing this around in my head for some
time when I set out to read C.S. Lewis' Space Trilogy.
I was struck equally by a portion of C.S. Lewis' That Hideous Strength (part
of the Space Trilogy series) in which a very well educated college professor
(with a fellowship) is manipulated and used by people with horrid motives.
As the book goes along, it becomes more and more clear that this character,
Mark Studdock, is being manipulated so easily because his eyes are blinded by
pride. Studdock is doesn't see the manipulation, which is so easy for
the reader to grasp, because he is proud of his education his sensibility and
his reasonableness. He doesn't want to appear unreasonable, and
therefore close-minded, so he is reasons everything out. Mark wants to
be liked and respected as a reasonable man just like my friend's highly
educated prisoners.
I step back and look at myself here...not that I'm exceptionally well educated
or really smart...but too often my pride in being reasonable and well liked
gets in the way. Someone may present themselves before me with a problem
or with a situation where they need to be rebuked in love and shown their
error, but I may cover it over in a cloak of reasonableness. I may end
up reasoning away their guilt while actually trying to maintain their
superficial liking of me.
When we do this as Christians, our pride becomes the driving force behind our
fraud. We give up speaking the truth in love in favor of tickling the
ears of those around us because we can't afford a blow to our self esteem and
pride. We want to be liked so we speak fraud in hatred rather than the
truth in love (who can argue that speaking fraud to someone who needs truth is
not hateful). We place ourselves above others, and in fact, we place
ourselves above God.
Dante, in his The Divine Comedy - The Inferno (Canto 26), placed
these people who tickled the ears and gave fraudulent counsel in order to
preserve their own pride and self esteem in a particularly horrible place in
hell. He placed them in a circle where they were individually surrounded
by a flame as they were constantly consumed (but never consumed) and
tormented. All communication with the damned had to pass through the
fire because their chief sin was with the tongue (which the scripture
says is as a flame).
We must guard ourselves against pride. Knowledge puffeth up but charity
edifieth (1 Corinthians 8:1). We should endeavor to grow strong in
knowledge and understanding, but we must guard ourselves against pride and
self love as we do. We should constantly endeavor to buffet our bodies
and beat the flesh into submission so that when we must lovingly speak the
truth we won't get in the way ourselves.
We must know the truth. We must study and be ready to speak the truth.
We must learn to lovingly and skillfully speak the truth. We must beat
down our own will, pride and selfish desires for recognition and acclaim.
The church should be the head and not the tail of society. The head or
leader is not doing his job when placing his likeability before other
responsibilities.